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Gay/Les/Bi Advice
Ask our gay/les/bi advisors anything having to do with gay/les/bi issues.
Our Advisors
All advisors for Gay/Les/Bi Advice are Student Center members. They will answer your questions carefully and thoughtfully. We currently have 5 active advisors in this section. You can click on an advisor's name below to view his/her profile, or click here to Ask our Advisors!
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Read the most recently answered questions below, or click here to read older advice. Before you ask a question, read through some of the older advice - your question might have already been answered!
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Coming Out |
| Date: |
February 26, 2012 |
| swissy16 asks: |
What are the first few ways to know if you are gay/les/bi? |
| axedmoon says: |
I think the first few ways is to really evaluate how you feel. How do I feel towards the same-sex? The opposite sex? Is this attraction purely physical? Could I see myself in a relationship with them?
These first initial steps are vital to figure who you are and how you feel. No one can judge that for you. :) Then, you move on from there.. please check out our resources on our forum! |
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Friends |
| Date: |
February 13, 2012 |
| les asks: |
i dont know what to do, i know that i am a les. and i love my bestfriend i guess that there is nothing you can help me with, but how should i handle this(she is straight) |
| axedmoon says: |
Sadly, this is a problem that happens often. When we're so close to someone, regardless of their orientation (guys fall for their girl friends all the time or vice versa), we tend to have this deep attachment and admiration for our good friends. Sometimes it becomes romantic.
I know there is not much I can do, but I can tell you that it gets better. I can tell you that you just have to fight through these feelings (sometimes you have to create a little space which is hard).
Some people find that confessing about it makes them feel better and that their friend can be supportive and help create neutral emotional space between you, but sometimes people prefer to just get through it alone. It's definitely your discretion.
Good luck. Hang in there. Move on, but know that even though it hurts - it can get better, okay? :) |
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Dating |
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August 12, 2011 |
| Wicked_2014 asks: |
how can i meet gay teens in my area? (cincinnati) |
| axedmoon says: |
http://forums.student.com/viewtopic.php?t=317314
Check out the Social Resources at the bottom! =) |
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