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Friends |
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May 10, 2008 |
| SportyFreak asks: |
I'm 18 female whose bisexual a senior in highschool. I have this friend, she's straight and all. Just recently she broke up with her boyfriend. I just found out recently that i have a crush on her. I'm going to talk to her this coming week about me liking her, and i have strange feeling that she might have the same feelings for me too. I want to go out with her but how can i when ill be leaving high school in one more week. Plus how can i tell her i have a crush on her. And i know she will ask me what do i like about her. I don't know how to answer that, but i just want her to know i like her and would like to take things further and all. So please give me advice on this.. |
| bretth4 says: |
First of all, dont start expecting that she will return your feelings. She is straight and sometimes our intuitions about these things can be very misleading (especially when we have crushes).
second, cross each bridge when you come to it. No use worrying about how you will carry on a relationship if you dont even know that there will ever be a relationship.
third: when telling someone you like them, being direct is your best policy. State it in clear, unequivocal language and she will get the message. |
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General |
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May 10, 2008 |
| smurfette asks: |
Hi im 15years old and recently i have started masturbating and i tend to fancy girls a lot is this wrong for my age? is there something wrong with me? |
| paperwingsburn says: |
A lot of girls question themselves around that point. I consider it a part of growing up for some people. It's not a bad thing at all so don't feel guilty about it. Be openminded and experiment if you want to. It's completely up to you what you feel is right, but don't just push away your feelings. There are many, many people going through the same thing. |
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Self |
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May 09, 2008 |
| lovieduv asks: |
how do you get over someone that you think about all the time ? I've been obsessing over someone that I was close to and ment alot to me and I 'm still not over her . I can't cry about her or even let myself get over her at all. it's exhausting to be obsessing over someone that ain't around anymore . |
| bretth4 says: |
Having crushes on unavailable people is always difficult. The only thing you can really do to try to move on is to keep busy and stop yourself when you start thinking of them in a romantic way. Whenever you start thinking about her just remind yourself that it wont happen and start thinking about the actual possibilities that you have. |
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